The girls my friend, but i want a bit more. What should i do?
I’ve had a this girl as one of my friends for about 4-5 years now. We’re pretty tight, hang out quite a bit. The way in which we hang out is kind of as if we’ve been dating for 5 years, although we really aren’t really dating (she’s just flirty, and we usually hang out just the two of us when we’re together).
The problem is i’m really looking for a bit more from her. She’s very attractive, and i’ve liked her on and off for the entirety of our friendship. She’s knows that i have liked her at points, and probably knows i do now. She really only liked me in a more than friends way at the beginning of our friendship. I’m looking for a relationship or anything (we’re both going to college in the fall (at different schools).
She seems to hook-up with lots of guys (just kiss), and i often hear about it, the problem is i want to be the story. I think of myself as pretty good looking (although she’s very good looking). She’s pretty flirty with me (as she is with lots of ppl however), but i just don’t know how to get her to feel the same way. Should i play hard to get, that seems to work sometimes, just any ideas would be great. Thanks
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I have seen her look at my abs and stuff at times when i come out of the pool and stuff, but she usually avoids eye contact when we’re in proximity to each other.
I have never seen a friend turn into a girlfriend, NEVER. I’ve heard of it happening, but it only works when you leave for a long period of time and come back a new man. (New attitude, car, home, career). My advice is to use this friend to help you meet new women, you don’t come off as creepy to other girls if you hit on them and she’s with you! (You to your friend that is a girl: Wow, she’s really hot don’t you think? Friend that is girl: Yeah, she is! Hey, what’s your name?) Remember, girls love other hot girls!
November 9th, 2010 at 6:35 am
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November 9th, 2010 at 6:43 am
If you are finished with college, and have the skills to provide a good living for yourself, a woman, and possibility a child….then absolutely, go to the jewelry store, buy an engagement ring, ask this amazing girl to marry you….and sometime while you are engaged…then talk her into having sex with you…
Other than that, why would you expect a lovely girl….who is having a great time dating around and behaving like a normal teen who wants to have a great life….to give all that up to have sex with you and have some sort of pseudo-junior-marriage???
Unless you are in the situation described in first part of my answer, you really don’t have anything that actually is an even swap for some wonderful girl’s virginity…
Doesn’t sound like loving her or wanting the best of the world for her to me….sounds like something else…
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November 9th, 2010 at 7:17 am
I have never seen a friend turn into a girlfriend, NEVER. I’ve heard of it happening, but it only works when you leave for a long period of time and come back a new man. (New attitude, car, home, career). My advice is to use this friend to help you meet new women, you don’t come off as creepy to other girls if you hit on them and she’s with you! (You to your friend that is a girl: Wow, she’s really hot don’t you think? Friend that is girl: Yeah, she is! Hey, what’s your name?) Remember, girls love other hot girls!
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